Paul Richard Cole Sr.

Born on August 25, 1947, in Long Branch, New Jersey
Passed on September 13, 2025 in Melbourne, Florida

🕊 In Loving Memory

Paul Richard Cole Sr. 1947 – 2025

Originally from Long Branch, New Jersey and moved to Melbourne, Florida in 2016, passed away peacefully at home.

💞 Survived By

Paul is lovingly remembered by his wife of 55 years, Wandy, and their three children:

Melisa Anne Cole Hofer (Rob Sr.)

Children: Darrin, Robert Jr. (Andrea), Heather (Katie)

Paula Cole Thorne (significant other Gary Rice, and the late Randy A. Thorne Sr.)

Children: Tiffany, Randy Jr.

Paul Richard Cole Jr. (Tiffany)

Children: Briceson, Julia-Ann

Predeceased by his parents and brother

Marshall and Dorothy Cole

Marshall Jr.

Also survived by his sisters:

Virginia Beach (Ronald)

Dorothy Hacker

Paul also leaves behind many cherished family members and friends.

🇺🇸 A Life of Service

Paul worked as a carpenter with his father (Cole Builders) and eventually took over the business. He also worked as a truck driver. He proudly served in the United States Air Force.

🙏 A Man of Faith

Paul was a longtime member of First Assembly of God Church in Shrewsbury, NJ, serving as a door greeter and usher. After moving to Florida, he joined Lighthouse Assembly of God, where he served as a deacon, usher/greeter, communion preparer, and custodian. He especially loved Thursday prayer meetings and breakfast with his pastor.

🦌 Community & Passions

Paul joined the Elks Lodge 742 in 1983, serving as:

Inner Guard (1986–1987)

Exalted Ruler (1993–1994)

Trustee (1994–1999)

Honorary Lifetime Member

He was also active in the American Legion, first in Deal, NJ, and later in Post 81, Melbourne, where he enjoyed Friday dinners and fellowship.

Paul loved communing with the Lord, doing his daily devotions, deer hunting, fishing, golfing, taking long walks with his wife, enjoyed working in his yard, watching football and NASCAR. He was a proud diehard fan of the Pittsburgh Steelers, and favorite NASCAR drivers included Rusty Wallace, Tony Stewart, and Martin Truex Jr. He also enjoyed watching the old westerns and FOX News.

🕯️ Service Detail

Vastation: Sept. 19, 2025; 10:00 a.m. Celebration of Life: 11:00 a.m. with luncheon to follow.

Location: Lighthouse Assembly of God, 26 West Fee Ave, Melbourne, FL 32901

🌹 In Lieu of Flowers

Donations may be made to:

Lighthouse Assembly of God – 26 West Fee Ave, Melbourne, FL

American Legion Post 81 – 2909 S Harbor City Blvd., Melbourne. FL

Grave Site Committal will take place at a later date at the Cape Canaveral National Cemetery.

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Melody Easy from Neptune wrote on September 17, 2025:
I have such fond memories of Paul at Shrewsbury AG. In New Jersey. He was an amazing husband to Wandy. He always had a funny joke as he greeted you. Wandy we are here for you! My deepest condolences! Hold on to God’s promises that Paul is with our Savior!🙏🏽❤️
Joy and Dave Kinney from Taylor Ridge wrote on September 17, 2025:
Our hearts go out to Paul’s family during this incredibly difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May his memory bring you comfort. Be gentle with yourselves as grief takes time.
Bonnie Carroll Glab from Wall NJ 07719 wrote on September 17, 2025:
I'm so sorry for your loss. He was truly loved by his family n friends..he will be missed Love you guys Bonnie
Jim and Lynn McBride from Melbourne wrote on September 17, 2025:
Love, Prayers and JESUS’ Great Comfort to you all😘☝️🕊️☝️😘 Our sweet, loving brother in law, Paul is resting in HIS SAVIOR’S Arms❣️❣️❣️
Kathy Warren from Eatontown wrote on September 17, 2025:
You were truly one of my favorite cousins and God knows we have a lot. You will truly be missed. You are home now with your parents and the Lord RIP. We will see each other again. Love you.
Dan , Cathy Dekeyrel from Burlington ,52601 wrote on September 17, 2025:
Thinking of you. God bless the family🙏🙏🙏🙏
Dan&Cathy Dekeyrel from Burlington wrote on September 17, 2025:
So sorry for your loss, Paul was a Great Man husband, Father, Grandfather We always loved spending time with Paul and Wandy when they came to visit Melisa and Rob and the Grandkids He will be truly missed by many Sending hugs,Prayers ,and Love to all the Family❤️ RIP Paul 🙏
Virginia &Ronald Beach from Deerfield Beach Fla wrote on September 17, 2025:
You were a Loving Brother I will miss you and our talks Now you are with Mom,Dad,Little Jr so your not alone RIP🙏🙏🙏