Born March 5, 1957 in Pawnee, Oklahoma
Passed November 3, 2024 in Melbourne, Florida
Ron Myers, my dad, gramps, your brother, and friend or extended family was grandma and grandpa’s last son of six total born in small town, Oklahoma.
Hard work and kindness define him. As he became older and wiser, he influenced his surroundings with a strong sense of ethics, tolerance, and conscientiousness. He set a great example of the “Oklahoma Standard” as he fed the homeless, instructed on how Jesus actually lived, and about a thousand other life 101 lessons that can be carried forth in his absence.
His resume is a long list of hospitality management positions, culminating in being his own boss as a vehicle customizer for 25 years. It funded my mom’s cat addiction and countless Jimmy Buffett concerts, SEMA trips to Las Vegas, and summers at the beach.
He had many hobbies and interests: my mom, me, his family, extremely devoted friends, TBI, the Beatles, ELO, a streak of bluegrass, big band, blues and jazz, stained glass, comedy shows, Star trek/wars, genealogy, travel, Bar Rescue, Boom Beach game, Pokémon Go, conquering dyslexia and reading hundreds of books, his ’66 Ford Galaxy, his Harley Davidson, fine cuisine, and the entire political process from volunteering at local groups to voting for national leaders.
From Emma: He was a fantastic gramps and person. He loved people for them and not for their ideologies or features but for them being themselves. Above all, he was a joy to be around, his humor, his compassion and his smile. He said everything with love and always gave a smile to those he interacted with. Not only do I love him but I am proud of him and his accomplishments. I am blessed to be his granddaughter.
From Joe: Ron was a great man and an even better grandpa. I remember spending so much time with him throughout my life, when he would check me out from elementary school to watch Star Wars and eat Sonic, or when we would drive around and talk about all sorts of things. His love for his family and friends was more than admirable, he shined as an inspiration for how one should be around their loved ones. Ron always had a smile on his face, even in the darkest of times he brought light. I’m truly lucky to have been his grandson.
From Brian: Ron Myers is off on his next great adventure with the love of his life, Shari Myers. I take comfort that he is no longer experiencing pain. Ron was a friend to so many people. His smile was infectious and he found humor and positivity in the mundane of everyday life. He saw the best in everyone he met. As my father-in-law, he adopted me fully into the family and taught me everything he thought his son should know. I will miss our deep discussions about philosophy, religion, life, and sci fi movies/TV. I am a better person for having shared my time with such an amazing man.
May the sun always shine warm upon your face, Captain.
Steve Donchin
from Edmond wrote on December 2, 2024:
Both Ron and Shari were such dear friends. Ron and I first met when he managed a Chi Chi's restaurant and became close when he joined our Temple family. Always willing to help whenever asked. I will always remember him at our Rosh Hashanah luncheon each year as he was so integral in helping make this such a community event. Love you Ron.
Susan Donchin
from Edmond wrote on November 26, 2024:
When thinking of Ron, I first envision his smile and hear his laugh. Next I think of his heart and compassion. Then not too far behind are his sarcasm and wit! To think of him is to envision him with Shari. In my mind, they are standing together in line at a temple buffet, making some kind of comment that makes me both laugh and think.
Ron really loved his family. Not just Katie and Brian and Joe and Emma, but his friends and Temple family. He was the man behind the scenes who did so much. Who put in so much work.
Enjoy your life up there Ron. Say hello to Shari for us. We love you.
Linda Thompson oswalt
from Sand Springs wrote on November 26, 2024:
I just heard of Ronnie’s passing, my deepest condolences to his family. Ronnie was a one of a kind guy. He was a friend to everyone and loved deeply. I am so lucky to have called him friend. He will be missed dearly.
Mark Ephraim
from OKC wrote on November 20, 2024:
What a special tribute to read so many wonderful comments. The common thread is Ron was a kin to Will Rogers, he never met a stranger.
I knew Ron from TBI and honestly don't think I ever laid eyes on him when he didn't have the look like he just won a huge lottery!
I know he was such a special part of the TBI Brotherhood and was large and in charge of any kitchen event he attended.
I also recall Ron and Shari always being so happy like they were on a great first date! That always stayed with me.
Ron sort of looks a little like Jimmy Buffet and it's fitting he ended his days in Florida spending a lot of time on the beach and near the water and waves.
Sail on my friend, your life was a blessing 😉 !
Mark Ephraim
Ricki
from Sonders wrote on November 20, 2024:
Such beautiful memories of your strong, kind and talented Dad, grandpa and father-in-law!! I met Ron and Shari years ago through my mother Betty Baruch Sonders (o.b.m.) when I started escorting her to Temple. My own recollections focus on the countless times we all laughed together, enjoyed serious conversations, and shared our common political views. The depth of Ron and Shari’s love warmed our hearts. So too when Ron gushed over how much he loved you all. May his memory be for a blessing and console you at this time.
Anita Barlow
from Edmond wrote on November 19, 2024:
Ron was a warm, friendly person, always smiling and making friends. His love for Shari was beautiful and inspiring. I miss that warm smile.
Pete Schaffer
from Oklahoma City wrote on November 19, 2024:
Ron...the consummate mensch! When Ron addressed members of the Disciples of Christ in Oklahoma City as to why he converted to Judaism one of the things he said was his "natural" affinity for Judaism. Afterward, member of the church strongly opined that Ron would end up in hell because he had abandoned Jesus. Ron never missed a beat: you may be right, he said but I believe that my brother Jesus, a Jew, will welcome me in the afterlife with open arms. Ron always gave his time and energy to causes be it the food bank, homeless alliance meals, T-day meals. What a kind, gentle man. RIP Ron!
Jennifer
from Rockledge wrote on November 8, 2024:
I knew Ron for a short time and in that time he was a pure joy to be around. He had a contagious smile that lit up the room. Ron showed kindness always and had such a pure soul. I know his pain has ended and now a new life has begun.Wishing Ron eternal peace and happiness just as he gave to others.
Sean Ozee
from Oklahoma City wrote on November 8, 2024:
I only had the chance to meet Ron once. It was Rosh Hashanah, I believe 2022 at TBI. We talked briefly. He was as kind and friendly a person as I'd ever met. He milled around outside for a bit as people came looking for him to welcome him and give him a hug. It seemed everyone knew who he was and were thrilled he was there. He left an impression on me. He was the definition of a mensch. Warm, affable, kind, and generous. His memory will forever be a blessing.
Solomon Treinen
from Oklahoma City wrote on November 8, 2024:
Ron went above and beyond helping even people he did'nt know well such as myself. When having my nose rebuilt, ron picked me up from the hospital. We went and had lunch, then back to the hospital due to a major complication. I had two big dogs, and when i mentioned there wouldn't be anyone there to let them out and feed and water them, he volunteered. The next morning he picked me up at the hospital, AFTER stopping by and letting the dogs out, then in, and making sure they had enough water. He even stayed with them a bit the night before and in the morning. He was a great guy.
George (Hank) Stephenson
from Stillwater Oklahoma wrote on November 7, 2024:
Met Ronnie in 6th grade. Instantly him and the whole family took me in and treated me like one of the family. I spent many weekends in the house I still love today his daughter said everything perfectly and uncannyhow it hit all the right nerves . I had 65 Galaxie and his 66 impala .. I am so sorry I am a procrastinator. I apologize to you and whole family you will always be in my prayers. May God bless
Elizabeth Wiley
from Oklahoma City wrote on November 7, 2024:
He was like a dad to me. Always so warm and loving and jolly. It’s been years since I’ve seen him, but I will see him again. So much love to my childhood friend and her family.
Cheryl Fenno
from Melbourne wrote on November 6, 2024:
What beautiful tributes! How blessed you were to have him in your lives. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Linda Horst Kluver
from Oklahoma City wrote on November 6, 2024:
I never got to know Ron. Karl was my father. My condolences to Ron's family & friends.
Tom Horst
from Sacramento, Ca wrote on November 5, 2024:
Sail on sail on Sailor...
May your sails be full and the wind at your back. You are very missed!
Susie Welch
from Rockwall, Texas wrote on November 5, 2024:
This is one of the best obituaries I’ve read. It describes a man who loved and was loved. We were reacquainted years after high school and I’m so glad of that. He was a light and it’s hard to process he is gone. I’m thankful his love
showed him the way. ❤️ Thank you Kate for keeping us informed. I pray for your peace.
Stephanie Umbro
from Limington, Maine wrote on November 5, 2024:
So grateful to meet both of them on my world win trip to see Shari before she died. Ron took me to my 1st Sonic experience; I made his eyes roll when he realized that Shari & I were so much alike. He, was really wigged out when we discussed how far we could out throw our vomit. (yup; Shari & I had fantastic chronic illness humor!) He was such a graceful host for 48 hours as his beloved was dying. My deepest condolences & lots of love to Brian, Kate, Joe, Emma, and all the other people who loved Ron. He will be missed.
Kimberly D Bilyeu
from Overland Park wrote on November 5, 2024:
Ronnie, you were a one in a million man, a loving Husband to your beloved Shari, a gentle soul who gave of himself everyday, to any in need help, be it inspiration, a supporting hand, a calm and gentle voice, or any type of help to uplift someone else. You will always be remembered for your sense of humor, your engaging smile, your laugh, and the twinkle in your eyes. You will be missed greatly, and thought of with affection and warmth, by myself, my Mother, Terrie, who has been a best friend to your MIL, Gay Williams, and was there when you married the love of your life.
With much love, we bid you adieu, and will see you on the other side of life. RIP Ronnie. 🙏🏻
Mari Fulgium
from Marina, CA wrote on November 5, 2024:
For a small time in my life, he was a friend of mine. He helped me learn responsibilities and humor with that effortless smile he always seemed to have. What a Gem of a man. He will be forever missed.
Sandy Myers
from Cumming, Georgia wrote on November 5, 2024:
Beautiful thoughts and memories of Ron from Katie, Brian, Joe and Emma. He was loved by so many and will always be remembered for his smile, big hugs, laughter, fabulous cooking and love for his family & friends.
Born March 5, 1957 in Pawnee, Oklahoma
