Born on March 18, 1944 in Winthrop, Massachusetts.
Passed on May 5, 2026, in Melbourne, Florida.
Steven Elliot Shoer passed away peacefully with dignity at his home in Melbourne, FL, surrounded by immense love and care, after a valiant battle with illness on May 5, 2026.
He is survived by his loving family. His adoring wife Elizabeth ‘Lizzie’ Strifler. His two loyal sons Jeffrey and Brian Shoer along with grandson David Shoer. His sister Susan Shoer endearingly referred to as ‘Sista Susie’. His nephews Ross (Audrie) Mahoney and Justin (Heather) Mahoney, Scott (Gina) Shoer and Andrew (Alicia) Shoer. His niece Chenoa (Emilio) Flippen of Philadelphia, PA. The cherished children of Elizabeth: Brian (Toni) and Amanda Prokopowich and their respective children Nick and Carson who fondly referred to their grandfather as T.T.. He will also be dearly missed by a large number of cousins spread throughout the United States.
Never to be forgotten, he was predeceased by devoted wife of 33 years, Miriam Shoer of Revere, MA. His parents Leo and Sylvia Shoer and brother Jerold ‘Jerry’ Shoer of Peabody, MA with whom he shared many antic-filled times.
Deeply touching the hearts and funny bones of so many, making countless friends in all areas of his life. He had a larger than life presence, yet humble, loving and generous to the core. Infamous for bringing joy to children and adults alike with his Donald Duck voice — to this day some simply refer to him as just that.
He spent his formative years on Boston’s North Shore (Peabody/Salem). The most senior male of his generation, he became the de facto godfather figure to the entire Shoer family.
Overtly proud of his military service in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War era, with various postings including the USS Constellation and Naval Station Pearl Harbor.
Accomplished in business, moving from New England in the early 70s with his wife and baby son to run International Lacquer. Then adding Ferox and eventually Bridgecote/Feroguard to the group of long standing industrial coatings manufacturers in Montreal, QC.
He was a die hard Boston sports fan and enjoyed watching NASCAR and IndyCar racing. At one time even drag racing his modified ’76 Corvette Stingray in Napierville, QC. Along those lines, he was an avid driver, and rarely let anyone else take the wheel.
He shared a passion for golf with his parents and brother, which he once played and continued to watch on a regular basis. Known as a true sportsman, he played organized broomball, softball, and touch football in Kirkland, QC.
He was a boating and motorcycling enthusiast, enjoying both passions on numerous trips to Lake Winnipesaukee, NH including several during Laconia Bike Week. Countless memories were made over the years in the Lakes Region with close family and friends at ‘Camp Clayman’. His grandest bike trip was to Harley Davidson’s 100th Anniversary in Sturgis, SD with good friends Sheldon Betsalel and Michael Festa.
From the days of reel-to-reel audio, 8-track tapes, cassettes to CD’s he always loved music. For favorite albums second tapes were needed after the first ones wore out. From music to the spoken word he left us with many takeaways. One in particular during the last months of his life was, “Enjoy everything!”.
He loved and cared with so much heart. He did it his way with dignity to the very end. Thank you for everything you gave to us, we will never ever forget them or you, and your life well lived. Enjoy everything, that’s what he would want us to do!
Much gratitude to Dr. Amit Barochia and his medical team, Health First Hospice, Dr. Gary Dana and his staff, as well as the Brownlie & Maxwell Funeral Home.
There will be a celebration of life in the near future.
Michelle Napers
from Melbourne wrote on June 2, 2026:
May his memory be a blessing. Steven was such a joy to know. He always had a great attitude and left me smiling when we parted. He truly enjoyed life!
Jamie Sandidge
from Vero Beach wrote on June 2, 2026:
My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to your family. I met TT through Amanda when she’d travel to the states to visit her beautiful mom and TT. While just spending limited time with TT, I learned of his humor, warmth and great love for his family. He will be missed.
Justine Pearl
wrote on May 29, 2026:
I remember being a small child and knowing, without a shadow of a doubt, that if I was ever in trouble and my parents weren’t there, I could call Steve. I’m not sure whether anyone explicitly told me that, or whether I simply understood it because of the kind of man he was.
I have the fondest memories of both Steve and Miriam - two truly extraordinary souls who were loving, generous, kind and funny (esp Steve ;). His legacy clearly lives on in his sons, who are themselves two phenomenal men.
May his memory always be a blessing.
Love Justine
Norman Pearl
from Dollard-des-Ormeaux, Québec wrote on May 27, 2026:
Dear Jeffrey, Brian, and Steve’s family. Claire and I were saddened to learn of Steve’s passing. While we lost touch with one another a number of years ago, we have many fond memories of our times together with Steve and Miriam. We extend our deepest condolences to all that loved him. May his memory be a blessing. Sincerely, Norman and Claire
Richard Lapointe
from St- Laurent Quebec wrote on May 25, 2026:
I met Steve in 1991. I went to meet him at his office at Int'l Lacquer in the East end of Montreal. The picture above is exactly what I remember. Wow does that bring back memories. We became fast friends as well as business associates. We spoke almost every week for 15 years.
He was larger then life....quick with a joke and a Donald Duck voice. I will remember him always.
The thought that comes to mind is going to race track with him as he sponsored a race car in the late 90s. Seeing his pride at have the name of his company on that car was quite something.
Rest in peace my friend
Sheldon Betsalel
from Montreal wrote on May 21, 2026:
I met my best friend, Steve Shoer, more than 50 years ago.
From the moment our friendship began, we shared a lifetime of memories, laughter, adventures, and unwavering loyalty. Through every stage of life, Steve remained a true and trusted friend — someone whose presence brought warmth, humour, and strength to those fortunate enough to know him.
Over the years, we experienced countless unforgettable moments together, including our crazy motorcycle road trips and the many good times that now feel even more precious. I have always considered myself incredibly fortunate to have had Steve in my life.
His friendship was a gift that I will forever treasure, and his memory will remain in the hearts of all who loved him.
Joe maggio jr.
from Amesbury wrote on May 18, 2026:
You opened your heart to us even after your wife had left this world. You invited us to New Hampshire, treated us like royalty and all the time such respect for my mother and my grandmother and my aunt.
You truly were a man among men
I’m very sorry that you are gone from this world when you still have so much to offer however, I’m glad that the suffering is done. rest in peace, dear Friend
Allie Heather O’Neill
from Almonte wrote on May 17, 2026:
I’m so sorry for this immense loss for you and your family. Jeff and Brian, know that he is not gone completely and will live on in you! Send you care and hugs, Allie
Steve and Paula Winik
from Delray Beach wrote on May 17, 2026:
We're very sorry to hear the passing of our dear cousin Steve. So many laughs and memories. Rest in peace
Lisa Halperin
from Boulder, CO wrote on May 16, 2026:
As yet ANOTHER cousin in the huge Shoer clan, I will scoreless miss Stevie, our senior most male cuz with the oversized personality that filled every room. He was a force in life, and his memory will always be a blessing for all of us. Peter, Jesse, Samantha and Joe, and I send our love to Lizzie, Susie, and the rest of Stevie’s family.❤️❤️.
Sandie Betsalel
from Montreal wrote on May 16, 2026:
Words seem to fail to describe Steve and honour the life he lived and the imprint he left on so many people. In all the years of knowing Steve he was always smiling, always looking to make those around him laugh and give generously to those he loved. Praying for Liz and all whose life he made brighter, if even for a moment. BDH
Wende Shoer
from Wilmot, NH wrote on May 14, 2026:
What a wonderful tribute to an amazing, original man. He will be missed by so many. Sending you much, much love. Wende, Geoffrey & Meghan, and Hannah.
Alan Shoer
from East Greenwich, RI wrote on May 14, 2026:
Sending lots of love to Stevie's family for the memory of all the wonderful times that we shared together as a family on the North Shore Shoer playground. He will be missed but always remembered! With love, Alan, Mary Lou, Leah and Sarah Shoer.
Nicole & Dave Menasci
from Chandler wrote on May 12, 2026:
Our deepest sympathies to your entire family for the immense loss of Steve. May the cherished memories you had with him bring you all peace and reminders of the joy you shared, during this most difficult time.
Sending you love & prayers,
Nicole & Dave Menasci
Amy Maas
from Marblehead wrote on May 12, 2026:
What a wonderful gentle man. We will miss him so. … and we will never forget Cousin Stevie.-
Amy Maas
from Marblehead wrote on May 12, 2026:
What a wonderful gentle man. We will miss him so. … and we will never forget Cousin Stevie.-
Robert and Irene Giardetti and Angie Giardett
from Oshawa, Ontario wrote on May 12, 2026:
Warm and generous Steve. Always with a smile.
You will be missed. Thankyou for the memories.
To the family - may your memories be your blessing.
God bless
Bobbie Irene and Angela Giardetti
Oshawa Ontario.
Toni Giardetti
from Ajax wrote on May 12, 2026:
TT there are no words to describe the imprint you have left in all our hearts. You will be dearly missed. RIP love you
Eileen Erlick
from Hallandle Bch wrote on May 12, 2026:
So very sorry to hear of Steve's passing. We have fond memories of good times with Steve and Miriam and Brian and Jeff. Ronnie joins me in sending our sincerest condolences.
With sympathy, Eileen
Richard and Patti Halperin
from Guilford wrote on May 12, 2026:
As one of the large number of cousins, I can guarantee that Stevie will be greatly missed by all. Truly a larger-than-life figure, as well as a ringleader for all kinds of family nonsense, he will always be remembered for his kindness and inspiration.